By Jueseppi B.
The Obama Diary has written about me:
Hiya everyone, I’m going to take a small break, I’ll be back Monday morning.
Need to clear my rusty old head, it’s been a truly weird day.
I told you before about the freaky abuse I got from the creature that is @MrMilitantNegro, it was a miserable whinge back then, and I could still thump myself for publicly letting him get to me – which, of course, utterly thrilled him. He celebrated my girly meltdown on his blog at the time, he viewed it as ‘mission accomplished’.
You put yourself on the internet, and then complain about abuse? I know, I know:embarrassing.
But, it was just kind of weird that the ugliest abuse – of the personal and sexual kind – I had ever received since starting the blog in the dim and distant past of October 2009 came from a supposed President Obama supporter.
So, yeah, the nature of this guy’s abuse got to me, it came at a very bad time personally, so I let emotions get the better of me, it was sexually violent language, and he made it pretty clear to me that the main reason he despised me was because I’m a woman who runs a popular blog – and he was never going to forgive me for either offense. But, having poured bile all over TOD, and all who comment here, he vowed to continue copying every single post he ever saw here. He didn’t seem to get the contradiction – but he’s not a very bright man, to be honest. In fact, he’s seriously stupid.
Back then, I didn’t explain myself very well, which he exploited, telling his followers I was a ‘selfish bitch’ who wouldn’t share her stuff with his splog (spam blog – ie one that just reblogs posts or copies posts from other blogs, usually with all links removed), but it was never about an objection to reblogging or sharing stuff, just about everything here is a link to somewhere else – the aim being to send you on to the sites with good stuff, eg Steve Benen, Charles Pierce, ThePeoplesView, Greg Sargent, Michael Tomasky, etc.
And I’ve always encouraged any fellow Obama-supporting bloggers to take anything from here they ever like, which, I think, they would all confirm.
It was only ever about standing up to HIS abuse and refusing to back down, ever. ‘Cos I’m that kind of gal – which is what makes him hate me even more.
I thought then that he was only targeting me with his abuse, but the emails poured in …. truly, this guy has a serious problem – with women especially.
One of the blogs on the blogroll here has been targeted by him too, as has another female blogger who contacted me recently.
All concerned will back that up, they’ve told me, if needs be.
Back then, some seriously smart posts started appearing on his blog. I was impressed, because he never seemed too bright. And then I Googled them and found out he’d simply copied posts from the likes of the Daily Beast and put them under his own name, and when his visitors congratulated him he simply thanked them for their praise.
After his abuse, I stopped him from reblogging me, with a techy trick, which enraged him, especially when I shared the trick with other blogs he was targeting. So, he started posting fake reblogs under my name, adding his own moronic comments to the ‘reblogs’, making it look like I had written them – which I hadn’t.
I thought that was, well, bizarre, but then this was emailed to me.
I contacted WordPress and asked them were fake reblogs allowed – they said ‘most certainly not’, and contacted him to tell him as much. So, he had to remove the fake reblogs he posted under my name.
At which point his hate levels soared.
I then made the decision to ignore him, which completely incensed him, I blocked him everywhere – email, Twitter, here, etc – and went about my bloggy business, never going near his splog again.
He kept trying to post comments here, praising his own splog, unaware that the same ip address showed up under his name and all his sock puppets.
Meanwhile, good people kept emailing and DMing me, telling me he was copying and pasting every single TOD post while abusing me on his blog, but so long as I didn’t have any contact with the creep, I really didn’t care.
Life’s way too short to be wasting time on crap like him.
Yesterday? I changed my Twitter background, and then got a DM saying “you know he’s changed his blog background to look just like your Twitter background?”
Honest, I laughed – if I sneezed, this guy would copy and paste the sneeze minutes later.
And then? After getting another DM, I stupidly tweeted about him copying another TOD post, and soon after I got this photo emailed to me, accompanied by the delightful message:
“Suck my cock bitch.”
Yes, that’s @MrMilitantNegro in the photo, as has been confirmed for me.
Am I meant to swoon or feel threatened by the naked stare? Dunno.
I have no clue who sent it, it might well have been from one of his fans, but whoever sent it:
@MrMilitantNegro? FUCK YOU.
The man repulses me, the fact that he has, every step of the way, believed my weakest spot was my gender says way more than I need to know. After that, his vitriol was the stuff of worthless, misogynistic, pitiful hate.
This, I can assure you, is not a tantrum or a surrender, just a pause to consider if life is long enough to deal with hideous photos of misogynistic pieces of hate-filled shit.
I don’t run this blog for profit, it’s not an ego trip (if it was I would use my real name), my life does not revolve around blog hits or Twitter followers – I seriously do not give a shit about all that stuff, this is and always will be a love thing. To this day, I feel blessed to be alive in President Obama’s time – that’s why I do this. No other reason.
@MrMilitantNegro stalks this blog, day and night – so, a couple of messages for him:
(1) I am a woman, get the fuck over it.
(2) No, I will never put your c**k in my mouth and swallow, so dream on.
(3) You’re a worthless piece of woman-hating scum.
(4) You will NEVER defeat me – I will be back Monday.
(5) I have concerns about Unite Blue – lots of concerns – and to add to the list: @MrMilitantNegro is part of their supposedly progressive movement. I kid you not.
PS Get some treatment, you need it.
I’ve made last night’s post private because I don’t want that scumbag getting any more attention from me, which is what he craves. So, **** him, he’s a worthless fool.
Have a great weekend everyone, see you Monday.
My 15 minutes of fame have arrived. Thank you The Obama Diary and Ms. Chipsticks.